Anniversary Dinner: Providence or Patina?

Suppose that you are celebrating your anniversary this evening. You don't have reservations, but your significant other gives you two options: Providence or Patina. You should have no problem calling and getting a table at either, but which do you choose? Assume that you will be ordering a la carte at either restaurant. One has lobster with truffles, halibut braised in white wine, and steak with morels, and the other has Kobe beef tongue, venison with roasted beets, and côte de bœuf. Place your vote below, and argue your case in the comments.